The rest of the account of the trip from London to New York, stuck on my stopover at Pearson Airport in Toronto …
As my trip was now delayed by close to four hours, I arrived into Pearson Airport, Toronto, the same time my connecting flight was originally to have arrived at New York. The problem for me was that I was in transit I could not contact the person who was picking me up (my “ride”) in New York, and by the time we got into Pearson they were already waiting for me at the airport in New York. I did try to ask Air Canada staff if they could contact their colleagues at New York’s La Guardia airport to convey this information for me to my “ride.”
The Air Canada personnel would not help me while I did not have a cell phone number for my ride. Several Air Canada personnel try to claim that my ride could simply ask at La Guardia I was on the airplane or not. That was a ridiculous suggestion probably meant just to shut me up, hoping I was foolish enough to believe it. For security reasons and personal privacy, NO airline will supply information of who is arriving on their flights.
In the end I was around 4 hours late to La Guardia. I found my ride sitting and reading a magazine, having spent the entire time waiting for me, hoping I would be on the next Air Canada flight in from Toronto. We were supposed to have had a meeting that evening to prepare for an event the following evening, which unfortunately we could not carry-out. She was an one hour drive from home so it made more sense to wait for me than to return home, hoping I would be on the next flight. Thankfully for her, I was, but it was close. A problem at Pearson almost cost me another delay.
In order to help kill time in a trans-Atlantic trip that was turning into a minor nightmare of stress, exhaustion, delays and simple endurance, I saw there was an ice hockey game being shown on a big screen at a pub/restaurant called the HMS Host. I thought I could finally relax for a bit, waiting for my next flight. It turned out to be far from that.
The HMS Host turned out to be understaffed and poorly staffed, with highly confrontational waiters. After a slightly long delay waiting for a hostess to seat me, a young lady appeared to seat me. I had 30 minutes to kill until boarding, meaning in the worst case scenario 40 – 45 minutes or else I would be in danger of missing my plane. My departure gate was just 3 minutes away.
I sat and waited some time, over 10 minutes, with an empty table and no waiters coming near. I was actually quite hungry after all of this flying, and did not know when my next meal would come. However, at this point I knew it was impossible to order even anything quick. In fact the lady sitting next to me said it would be “good luck” if I actually got served by a waiter. They were completely ignoring our section. The lady next to me suggested flagging down the hostess, to was the only staff person appearing anywhere near us.
Probably I should have enjoyed the chance to just sit and watch the game. It would have been nice to have something to drink while watching it, but I also would have been unhappy if after 20 minutes a waiter finally appeared and I would have to guzzle it down in 10. I decided to flag down the hostess for her help in ordering a drink, which she did. It was then a few minutes afterwards that the waiter finally appeared, quite unhappy that he had been rushed over to me. He asked for my order, rudely. I asked why I had to order again, and he simply repeated himself. “Luis,” the name on his name tag, was quite upset with me. It was not a promising start to our relationships.
I simply repeated what I had ordered, with no idea to the price, and hoped that I would not be served two drinks out of this process. As the waiter already appeared confrontational, I could only imagine that would make matters worse if I had to refuse a second drink.
I made a mistake. I should have realized that with such service, I would have to pay up-front so as not to be delayed in my departure to my plane. It this point I was extremely exhausted though as I was 7 time zones out of sync, and had spent nearly 20 hours in planes and airports at this point. I was not at my quickest and it was now 2:30 am London time.
Over the proceeding 15 – 20 minutes I grew more nervous as time went by, with how to pay my bill. Heck, I did not even know to whom or how to find the staff. I was also pretty unhappy with the service at this point. I was watching as other customers got slowly seated and, with perplexed looks, dealt with the lack of service. One pair of ladies sitting a table away from me, who with time look more and more unimpressed, decided to pick up and leave after 15 minutes without a waiter coming to visit them. I wanted to do the same, as my plane would not be getting ready to board.
Not sure what to do, I made obvious motions packing up to leave, hoping that someone would come to take my bill. No one did. I was not getting into the critical stage of when my plane would be boarding. I was not going to miss my plane, after my day’s travel ordeal, just because my waiter did not want to serve me. I left hoping someone would see me in the process.
No one did. I saw that my plane was boarding. I started to hurry off for it when I heard finally someone chasing off after me. He was scolding me out loud for leaving without paying; I’m not sure if he realized my plane was boarding ahead.
I was not happy with his attitude still, but I thought there would not be a problem. I had $10 Canadian in my pocket so I could pay him. The bill though was $13 for a single beer! I was shocked by the price, I would not have ordered at that cost, but that also meant I did not have enough money to pay him off hand. Meanwhile he was threatening me with security.
I was really stuck in a hard place because it was crucial I caught this flight to New York, and would have been to say the least upset to have missed it because of $3. I hurried back to the HMS Host to pay my bill by card. Well, as it turned out I could not either pay with my Canadian Debit card, which is almost unheard of in a country were some people have quit carrying cash, paying for everything by debit.
At least I had my credit card on me. Meanwhile through all this I was having to put up with Luis scolding me loudly for not paying, perhaps his way of overcompensating for his own fault of inattentiveness in this situation, telling me about how in “this country we have to pay.” I was to say the least, while my plane was boarding through this, not in the best of moods. I needed him to shut up and hurry-up. I responded to his behavior by loudly and repeatedly telling him to “hurry up” and be “faster.”
It was at this point that his colleague We’id (this is the name I saw on the other waiter’s name tag, though it seems strange) said that Luis should call security on me. I was at this point livid, but had the bigger picture to worry about. I had to be in New York for a fundraiser the next day for a humanitarian medical relief project I was helping to organize. It was to say the least much more important than such a petty situation. It did not help though, We’id quickly just said he was going to call security.
Finally Luis finished processing my credit card. I paid and hurried away, as I was sitting around the 40 minute market from when I originally started this testing experience. Really, what was happening was that there were probably not enough staff for some reason that evening, an airport is a very busy place and the staff were probably overstretched. Luis was probably in his 40s and a Hispanic immigrant, so this was probably not the most ideal job. I decided I did not want to make his life that much worse, so I turned around to essentially call a truce, to say that I was sorry for pressing him but to explain quickly how he was costing me. It would take just 1 minute and probably make this man’s evening a whole lot better.
He was having none of it. He simply launched off again into his tirade and it came up that I wanted to see his manager. This woman appeared quickly enough and Luis walked off. Before I could say anything to her We’id walked up and claimed that I had called Luis a “bastard.”
It was a lie, maybe to support his colleague Luis. Perhaps he misunderstood me, but it was ridiculous. To be honest I would not even call him a bastard. I come from a small rural White community where bastard is not really considered so much of an insult. It seems to tame to use when you are unhappy. If I had called him a name, I would have used much harder wording.
At this point my flight was in jeopardy but I was a little concerned, as the two waiters now appeared somewhat dishonest to me, that they might cause me a problem as I left or should some extra expense suddenly appear on my credit card. I quickly explained my situation to the night manager (she was not the overall manager) and asked her if she could produce a business card for me to follow-up with the managers. She at least listened sympathetically and thankfully returned with the information within a couple minutes.
I quickly said something about how they should not treat customers this way but had to hurry off to catch my flight. I saw a security guard standing near the entrance as I left. I wondered if We’id had called him, or if it was a coincidence I was the last one on my plane and we departed soon afterwards.
I arrived into La Guardia not much more than an hour later. The one consolation through all of this was that I got a beautiful view of New York at night, lit by its own golden lights.
I was pretty worked up still when I arrived at La Guardia and found my ride sitting alone, bored, reading a magazine.
I have come to detest air travel and avoid it whenever possible. In fact, days like this one described in these two postings are like a mild form of torture. Even my attempt to relax and watch the hockey game had turned into a near catastrophe, and just added stress exponentially to the day.
Well, at least I escaped with my life. The police killed a Polish man at a Canadian airports just recently.